Winter wonder, inspiration, and self-compassion…
I walked out of my apartment building this morning and it was so beautiful outside. I couldn’t help but notice the snow sparkles. I had to show my son the sparkling top layer of the snow. I have been enjoying so much the morning sunrise. We are so fortunate to see the sunrise on the way to work! I am driving and I look at the pink sky. Yes, there is beauty in winter….that’s for sure. I don’t forget the fact that I have to scrape the windshield, warm up the car, and put layers of clothes, but as I look at the sunrise and listen to some music on the way to work, my attitude changes and I set a nice tone for my day.
I guess I am trying to talk about inspiration. Isn’t it inspiration that we are all looking for in our day, in our experiences, and interactions with people? I know I am. When I read, I want to read something that moves me. If I listen to music, I want the music to get to me, I want to feel it. I am referring to experiences that touch me on a deep level. At the end of the day, these are the experiences which bring meaning to my life. Sometimes I think that my life is about connections—with family, friends, and people in general. My interactions would not be meaningful to me unless I felt connected with my loved ones on a deeper level. At least this is how I am and I am aware that people are different. And it is all good.
I don’t know about you, but I know that I was never taught to be gentle to myself, to be kind to myself, to be self-compassionate. I read an article recently addressing self-compassion and it made me think. I started asking myself “Do I give myself a break sometimes? Do I beat myself up for my faults?” Read More →